1 to 2 yearsA few minutes
1. Feather light touch
Gently tickle your toddler’s arms, legs and face with a feather or soft fabric, sitting at their level and narrating as you go. Repeat three to six times or until they lose interest, and watch closely for the point where giggling turns into overstimulation.
You’ll need: a feather or soft fabric strip
Mess-o-meter: none
Say this: “Look at you go!” · “Try this one.” · “Again?”
6 to 12 months10 minutes
2. Warm water drops
Fill a bowl with water that feels warm on your wrist, never hot, and drop single drops onto your baby’s hand, foot and tummy one at a time, pausing between each so anticipation builds.
Never leave a baby alone near water, even a shallow bowl, and empty it as soon as you finish.
You’ll need: a dropper, a bowl of warm water, a towel
Mess-o-meter: some
How to play
- Say “I have warm water, watch” and place one drop on the back of their hand.
- Wait two seconds and ask “did that tickle?”
- Try a foot, then an arm, one drop at a time.
- Stop after five to eight drops, once they look relaxed rather than bored.
2 to 3 years20 minutes
3. Gloop making
Mix glue and liquid starch together and stir until it thickens into a stretchy, slimy gloop. Let your toddler pull and stretch it once it’s formed, and expect the moment it stops being liquid to get a very interested look.
You’ll need: white glue or a flour paste, liquid starch, a bowl
Mess-o-meter: lots
1 to 2 years15 minutes
4. Ring chain waterfall
Clip large plastic rings, at least 6cm across, into a chain no longer than 30cm, then pour it slowly over your child’s open hands so it falls through their fingers into a tub. They’ll scoop it back up and pour it out again on their own.
Use only large rings rather than small chain or beads, keep the chain under 30cm so it can never go round a neck, and put it away out of reach afterwards.
You’ll need: large plastic linking rings, a tub
Mess-o-meter: none